We talked about the segue toward the casual funeral pre-planning discussion with your family members.  Now how can we really get started on funeral pre-planning?

Well, many funeral homes have funeral planning guides.  These are quite intense. They help gather all the information about you and keep it nestled in one place. For instance, your particulars; family history; charities near and dear to you; people to notify; your funeral choices; even what you want to be buried with. Some include notes on 'things that matter to you', which are very helpful notes when preparing a eulogy.

This takes me back to my Grandmother’s eulogy by the cantor.  And during our discussion with him, we were laughing about her need to mix things up when cooking.  She used to mix 12 packets of different coloured gelatin and serve it after dinner. The end result was clear brown gelatin and not very appetizing to look at.  I have to tell you I almost dropped when he mentioned this tidbit at the ceremony!  My Grandmother now is in heaven dealing with the audacity that her grandchildren didn’t like her creativity in food preparation.

Just another reason to discuss and document! These planning guides that I am talking about are available at no charge.  To get one just contact one of the funeral homes in our distribution list and they will be happy to send one out with no obligation.

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